Am I guaranteed a 50-50 division in my divorce? If it’s my pension and I’ve earned it, shouldn’t I get to keep it all? The property division or marital property rules in Texas are pretty complex. We will start with the theory. One way to look at it is that a marriage is like a partnership, that the two of you are pulling together, trying to make your way in the world, and you share the property … [Read more...]
Misconceptions about adultery and separation in a divorce
What does “separation” mean for my divorce proceedings? Saying “I want a divorce,” and physically moving out does not change anything as far as the law is concerned. The date of separation does not hold much importance. Your community estate continues to accumulate while your divorce case pends, so until the judge decrees the divorce you are still legally spouses. Even though you and your spouse … [Read more...]
Divorce and the Holidays – What Now?
When the holidays come around after a divorce, what do you do? So it’s the holidays and you just got, or are in the midst of a divorce. It's the time of year when people start hanging stockings, breaking out holiday sweaters, and stockpiling eggnog. For those who recently have gone through a divorce, this festive time can be confusing and challenging. Here are a few simple tips on handling … [Read more...]
Five Tips for Surviving Divorce and the Holidays
1. Don't go it alone! Whatever you do, don't shut yourself up and spend the holidays alone. Divorce is an emotional time and being alone with depressing thoughts is the last thing you want to do. Make plans with friends or family, even if it seems hard to do so. Getting out will be good for you! 2. Break the traditions! If you're out with friends and family, you don't want reminders of … [Read more...]